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Humans prefer to communicate in different ways.
These preferences are usually at the core of each individual’s being, and, oftentimes, he or she might not even be aware of them!
"Know thyself first." We tend to see the world through our own set of lenses, unless we make a conscious effort to see things from someone else’s point of view. This takes practice and comes naturally to only a few privileged people. The rest of us need to work at it!
Unless you communicate on the same—or at least similar wavelength—it will be hard to get your messages across and get to a positive outcome that will produce lasting behavioral change. The effort can start with you!
There is enough pain and suffering to go around nowadays. Think about it: in the scheme of things, what we tend to be offended or argue about on a regular basis is very trivial. The next time you are facing a conversation challenge, pick two or three of these suggestions and put them into practice. You will be amazed at the results and how some simple things can have a huge impact—here—on planet earth.
For almost 20 years, Eugenia has held several leadership and managerial positions creating and heading training, professional development, and human resources programs as well as has consulted for Fortune 500 corporations and non-profit agencies in the United States and Latin America. Her educational foundation includes a Masters degree in Counseling from Seattle University and a Bachelor’s from California State University, Hayward, with a degree in Human Development. Eugenia's unique creations, including employee and career development resources, workshops on numerous topics, interpersonal communication tools, and innovative training materials, have earned her numerous awards and recognition. Her latest innovative products, "Talk to Me... I'm Human"™ Interpersonal Communication Cards and the Career Journey Toolkit™, are a reflection of her commitment to providing individuals with practical tools for personal and professional growth. |
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